Our individual responsibility is to keep His commands, because He is our Authority, our God, our Healer, Redeemer, Teacher, Counselor. We have to remember that others may reject Him, but it is Him alone who has the authority to Call.
I personally rejected His call upon my life twice before submitting to Him. He called me to Him first when I was 16, and second when I was 20. I rejected His call and chose the world. Sure, I had some great experiences, but worldly living brought me into great hardship. I am thankful to have answered His third call with submission.
By keeping His commands, we can show ourselves as His disciples, but it is He who Delivers our spouses, family, friends, and neighbors, and we should pray for them to bend their knee to Him alone.